In combination with the five days of (Irin) chemotherapy, the days were long that first week of radiation. We used the flexibility that was made available to us in the radiation department. Even if they set up appointments for you, they recommend dropping in before or after chemotherapy to see if there are windows available. Unlike chemo, their department has a lot of cancelations and last minute rescheduling. This can open up appointments and most don’t last very long. We were spoiled that first week, we did not show up for any of Olivia’s scheduled appointments. We went in when it was convenient and she was in and out in a matter of minutes.
On the weekend, Olivia was able to go to shopping with Caroline, but was noticing more and more that being on her feet for any length of time was difficult. On Sunday, Olivia and her friends walked along Scorton’s Creek, taking breaks to sit and rest, and that evening Michael and Olivia enjoyed a movie at the theater. These kind of activities are what healthy people take for granted. We are all thrilled when Olivia can add any kind of normalcy to her weekends.
Last week we anxiously waited to see if she would experience similar chemo side affects that she had over Memorial Day weekend, following that same course. With the help of the Dr. Thorton and her team, we were trying everything possible to avoid another episode. Unfortunately, not only was she experiencing the fatigue and nausea, her stomach took a turn for the worse. It was still a slight improvement from Memorial Day weekend. This was the second of seven similar chemo treatments that she will be getting over the forty weeks. We now have a lot more information and we know what works for Olivia, we will be ready for the third, fourth, fifth, sixth and seventh.
While at Dana Farber these past two weeks, Olivia made it a priority to get fluids regularly. Fluids take the edge off, combating the dehydration that intensifies the nausea and lightheadedness. It is also good for the areas that are getting radiation. Unfortunately, we had a lot of afternoon appointments that second week of radiation and because they were busy they couldn’t move them any earlier. Tuesday was the only day last week that she did not get any fluids and as a result Wednesday morning Olivia woke up dehydrated. She couldn’t handle the idea of sitting completely still on that table, literally locked down in a mask for 20 minutes. They had her wait on a stretcher for an hour and a half then they rolled the stretcher in the radiation room, sliding her on and then off the radiation table. It was hard to imagine that she was planning on attending a concert just a few hours later. Caroline was with us that day, she had no idea that Olivia purchased tickets to a concert for that evening. It was a surprise and it was happening!!
In the end Olivia was able to enjoy the Ellie Goulding concert with Caroline and their close friends. The concert was at 7 and she was unhooked from the IV at 5:30, leaving just enough time for getting dressed and eating dinner. It was a surprise Olivia had planned for Caroline weeks earlier and all involved made it a special night. Fortunately for me, Michael and Maggie were able to assist with Olivia’s care again this week, relieving me so that I could come home and tend to other things.
As far as side affects for radiation, almost immediately she experienced a dry mouth. We bought everything available over the counter, as well as, tried using prescriptions medications; it is a constant battle. With the radiation, Olivia’s head, face and neck will become dry and have the look of a sunburn, maybe even more severe. The same goes for the inside of her mouth and throat. By the end of week two, she noticed it was harder to swallow, the sores in her throat were eventually causing her agony, comparing it to swallowing shards of glass! She spits into a tissue rather than swallowing her own saliva. How does one sleep or eat anything when they can’t swallow their own saliva? Dr. Tishler, her radiation oncologist, warned us that this would happen. As a parent, you always pray that maybe your child’s case would be different. Baby food, smoothies, and ice pops are going to be a major part of Olivia’s diet for the next couple of months. A feeding tube isn’t out of the question either, Dr. Thorton is all for it. Dr. Tishler feels as though her support group is strong enough, she is constantly being monitored and he believes that she will be able to sustain the pain to get enough nutrients. Time will tell, she has already lost 20 pounds from her usual weight.
Most who know our daughter Olivia know that she is a doer. On many occasions I have referred to her as a machine. She spent most of her life making sacrifices to reach a certain goal, that she had set for herself. Over scheduling had become the norm for her, as much as it gave us anxiety, she always had a solution. Even with leaving early or arriving late, she always gave 110%, to make up for it. Sleeping and eating became an inconvenience for her, stopping or interrupting her progress. Olivia slept hard and ate on the run. I always prayed for some kind of balance for her. Just this past spring volleyball season she worked hard, along side her Babson teammates and their trainer, lifting weights to build muscles and to become a stronger athlete. Olivia was in her best physical shape, so we thought. She was proud of her efforts and had fun showing off her tiny biceps.
In just a few months she is at the opposite end of the spectrum, trying to eat little meals throughout the day in between naps. Anything else is that day’s highlight. Two months have past since we started this battle, Olivia shed tears twice in front of me, on the day she found out she was sick and on the day of her surgery, which was her first day of treatment. She has yet to complain or feel sorry for herself! I am blown away, as usual, by her strength and determination. I know she keeps things from me, because she doesn’t want to worry me. Olivia’s heart is so big, she hopes to somehow protect me from her pain.
We are anticipating an exciting event following week five of radiation. On July 10th Coach Tom Turco and the Barnstable High School’s Girls Volleyball Team together organized a Fast Fours Volleyball Tournament to assist Olivia in her fight agains ARMS. Please join us, if not to play to cheer on the people that came out to support our daughter in the sport that she loves. Depending how Olivia is feeling on that particular day, will decide if she can attend.
Fast Fours Volleyball Tournament
Date: Sunday July 10, 2016
Place: Barnstable High School Gym and Field House
Time: 10:00 AM-2:00 PM
Fee: $25 per player/$100 per team
Rules: Each team of four can have up to two men on the team. Men cannot contact the ball above the height of the net in front of the attack line.
Format: The format will be a Fast Fours tournament that will allow teams to be reseeded as the day progresses.
Team Name ___________________________________
Team Representative ___________________________________
FEE: $25 per player or $100 per team
Teams must have four players. Teams of 5 must rotate or sub players in.
Make checks out to Olivia Brodt and mail to:
Olivia Strong VB Tournament
PO Box 303
S. Harwich MA 02661
Questions please contact Tom Turco email@example.com
MIAA rules state that no more than two Barnstable candidates (remaining eligibility) can be on the court at any one time.
When it was suggested that a “Meal Train” be set up to bring meals to our home, I have to be honest, I was apprehensive. At that point I figured getting take out wouldn’t be that hard, if we didn’t have time to prepare anything. After two months of having meals delivered, fully cooked and ready to eat, I don’t know why I would even question it. These meals are a godsend! Thank you, from the bottom of our hearts, to the dozens of families that have participated. Driving home late from Boston we don’t have to stop because we know there is food there waiting for us, or if some of us are staying in Boston we know the others are set for dinner. It gives us time to rest and recharge on a Sunday afternoon, time that we wouldn’t have if we needed to shop for the week or prepare dinner. Nothing goes to waste, often there are close friends visiting and we have enough to share!! Seriously, the generosity from the people in this community is nothing short of a miracle. I thank God every night for the love and support we are receiving and we want YOU to know that is what keeps us going.
Once you choose hope, anything’s possible. ~Christopher Reeve
XO The Brodts